Dear reader,, dear reader, and especially to mention the upcoming marriage, whose main concern is preparing the marital home, preparing for joy, the wedding dress, the place to spend the honeymoon, and other usual life matters. It is supposed to think about life after marriage about some important matters through which you will plan and draw your life to continue after marriage.
Five important discussions that should be on the way to marriage
1- money
As financial matters are one of the most important matters in marital life, and many disputes and cases of separation occur because of the difference in financial issues. If both of you have a private income, you must agree whether you will share your money so that it says one thing or that each individual will maintain his financial privacy and what are the priorities of each Both of you spend, and one of the marriage experts says that it is better that the money of the husband and wife be one thing because this increases the degree of trust, friendliness and love between them.
2- parents
Where you must determine the way to deal with the family of each of you, as well as the extent of their interference in your life, and you must make sure of the degree of dependence of your partner on his family and whether he is willing to bear the responsibility and burdens of the family alone and without relying on his family or not, and your dialogue must include the situation in which you will live In the future, will you have a home and an independent family, or will you live with your parents?
3- Children
Children are really the most beautiful gift to us from God, but this does not mean that you should have children immediately after marriage, but you must agree with your partner how many children you want to have and when to have them .. As this is one of the most important things that you should They agree before marriage.
4- The special relationship
The special relationship is one of the things that requires the most compatibility between you, as its success is the most important factor in the success of married life.
5- Religiosity
The establishment of the family on a religious basis is considered the most important thing that makes life between spouses more stable, more comfortable and reassuring. Each of you must ensure the degree of religiosity of the other party and agree to perform some religious rituals together, such as performing Umrah, for example. In addition, you must agree to raise your children. A sound religious and moral upbringing, and that the primary goal of your marriage is to create a family with sound religious foundations, values, morals and principles.
So make sure, young man, and make sure, girl, that agreeing on these matters and setting broad plans and basic clauses for them by agreement before marriage will eventually bring you a married life full of all meanings of love, security, happiness and harmony.
